Are You Carrying Your Shoulders When You Ride?
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Before you read further, pause.
Where are your shoulders right now?
Are they resting —
or quietly working?
Many riders carry more effort in the shoulder girdle than they realize.
And over time, that subtle effort becomes normal.
A slightly lifted shoulder position starts to feel “upright.”
Effort starts to feel like engagement.
But when the shoulders stay subtly elevated:
The neck compresses.
Breathing becomes shallow.
The scapula loses its natural glide over the ribcage.
The connection begins to feel less elastic.
Tension travels.
From the shoulder girdle
into the arms
into the conversation with your horse.
Because the quality of contact starts in the shoulder girdle.
A Simple Awareness Reset
I like to guide riders through this in three steps.
1.Find Your Baseline
Sit quietly.
Lift your shoulders gently toward your ears.
Notice the effort.
Then let them melt down.
Not drop.
Not collapse.
Just melt.
Pause.
That’s your starting point.
2.Wake Up the Area
Now gently tap around your shoulder girdle.
Tap the tops of your shoulders.
Around your collarbones.
Around the back of your shoulder blades if you can reach.
You’re not massaging.
You’re giving your nervous system information.
Awareness before correction.
Pause again.
Notice if something already feels different.
3.The Reset
Now repeat the lift.
Slowly elevate.
And slowly allow the shoulders to descend.
Controlled.
Soft.
Breathing naturally.
Up.
And down.
Notice the difference from the first time.
The movement should feel smoother.
Less effort.
More space through the neck.
That’s not stretching.
That’s neuromuscular recalibration.
When the shoulder girdle can move freely between elevation and depression:
Breathing deepens.
The neck decompresses.
The scapula glides more smoothly over the ribcage.
The contact becomes lighter without you trying to make it light.
Small motion.
Strong reset.
And sometimes, the difference your horse feels is immediate.
Because when you carry less effort in your body,
the whole conversation becomes softer.
Not weaker.
Softer.
And softness, when it’s organized, is powerful.
With love and awareness,
Ale
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